Each month, WAAA hosts the Supporting Parents of Autism group, facilitated by Gretchen Glass, M.A., MFT, a marriage and family therapist who practices in the Seattle area. Gretchen has personal experience with Autism, having grown up with an older brother who was diagnosed when the diagnosis was new and there were minimal resources for children and families.
What is your role in the Supporting Parents of Autism group?
My role is to be supportive on a clinical level. I have experience working with kids and families that have an Autism diagnosis. I am happy to answer questions.
What are the most pressing things that parents with a newly diagnosed child with ASD are dealing with?
The common question I get is, what now? People are unaware of the support that exists in our communities. Another thing that a family might be dealing with in regards to a new diagnosis is a sense of loss. Others feel like a diagnosis brings them understanding to some of the behaviors.
What are the top questions you hear from parents?
Anything related to school. Most parents of young kids tend to be anxious about the environment outside of home. Naturally, they want to be reassured that their child's needs will be accommodated.
How can other loved ones (grandparents, aunts, uncles, friends) help families that have a child with ASD?
I would suggest following mom and dad's lead. They tend to know the cues and their kid pretty well. Then look into literature or support groups in your community.
What kind of support is available for siblings of kids with autism? What do they need?
As a sibling of someone with autism, I would say that there needs to be special time for each kid with mom and/or dad. If you're busy with therapy appointments, own it. Be aware that the other child may appear fine but they are aware of brother or sister's differences. Some communities have support groups but most do not.
SPA meets monthly September through June on the second Tuesday in West Seattle and we encourage any parent with a child on the Autism spectrum to join us. The next meeting is Tuesday, June 10, 1-2:30 p.m.
In addition to the Supporting Parents of Autism Group, WAAA’s Resource Directory has hundreds of listings for other support groups in communities throughout Washington.